What People Are Saying

From government agencies and nonprofits to individual leaders and workshop participants — here's what people experience when they work with Aang Lakey and Increasing Consciousness.


“Mx. Lakey is a profoundly insightful, professional, and practical leader. They brought years of military and private sector experience, paired with real-life leadership familiarity, to help us all reimagine antiquated, one-size-fits-all approaches to leading and supervising at the Department.”

— Russel, State Department


“Aang was decades younger than I but decades wiser with a passionate heart to make a difference through strategic initiatives they thoughtfully planned out with compassion, equality and accountability in mind. Although we haven't worked together for over a decade, Aang remains one of the most influential leaders I have had the privilege to work with.”

— Doris, VT National Guard


“Their keynote was exceptionally well presented, filled with thoughtful insights and practical wisdom that truly resonated with our attendees. Aang's ability to weave personal experience with professional expertise made their message both relatable and impactful.”

— Alex G.


“Aang helped our participants not only understand self-awareness but also translate it into action. With comprehensive and research-backed materials, our participants left the sessions with deepened knowledge and actionable strategies for their continued leadership journeys.”

— Maz, Atlas Corps


“Powerful and transformative. Aang's raw honesty in sharing brought a level of vulnerability, authenticity, expertise and deep knowledge on the topic as well as thought-provoking insight that left everyone feeling inspired and invited them to reflect on their own values and behaviours.”

— Melanie, Expert Channel TV


“Aang Lakey's teaching isn't just theoretical — the Leadership Reflexivity Cycle (LRC) feels deeply practical. I now catch myself noticing internal patterns, emotional cues, and misalignments between what I intend and how I act. The guided reflections and real-world applications helped me build a more conscious, grounded leadership presence. Highly recommend to anyone who wants to lead with authenticity and presence.”

— Kathy G.E.


“Aang Lakey can coax out your best self! They will help you nurture your strengths and challenge you to consider what you might need to reevaluate about your approach toward yourself and others in your professional (and perhaps personal) life. Your interactions will be authentic and compassionate but be ready to tackle the tough stuff. You and those you interact with will be grateful for what Aang can help you access within yourself!”

— Monica, USCG


“Leadership Reflexivity pushed me to slow down, look inward, and understand not just how I lead, but why I lead the way I do. The exercises were simple but powerful, and the instructor has a calm, grounded way of explaining things that makes you feel understood rather than lectured. I'm walking away with a clearer sense of purpose and a more mindful approach to leadership. Absolutely a 5-star experience.”

— Carine S.


“So grateful I took this course. It helped me unlearn old leadership habits that were reactive and instead learn to pause, reflect, and realign. The LRC (self-awareness, self-evaluation, self-adjustment) framework Aang teaches is super powerful — I use it in stressful meetings, in team conversations, and even in day-to-day decision making. What I love most is how this isn't just about being better, but being more true to my values. Incredible course.”

— Erin C.


“I watched Aang Lakey's presentation yesterday, and I just have to say how incredibly inspiring it was! Aang's teaching style was so clear and engaging, it felt like the time flew by — which is always a sign of a well-structured and impactful lecture.”

— Summit Participant


“I didn't realize how much of my leadership style was happening on autopilot until I went through these lessons. Aang breaks things down in such a relatable way, and the reflections helped me become more intentional in how I communicate and make decisions. I feel more self-aware and clearer about the type of leader I want to be.”

— Sandrina O.


“The emphasis on intersectionality opened my eyes to the subtle biases that can affect team dynamics. The real-world examples and tools provided are practical and easy to implement. I now feel better equipped to lead diverse teams with empathy and fairness.”

— Modesta


“This course gave me the space to step back from the constant rush of leadership and really look inward. The instructor guides you gently but effectively into deeper awareness. I didn't realize how much I needed this until I took it. Such a grounding and insightful experience. 5 stars.”

— Elza R.


“Really impressed with this course. It's practical, calm, and makes you actually think about who you are as a leader rather than just giving generic tips. I've already started applying some of the exercises with my team, and the difference is noticeable. Highly recommend to anyone wanting to grow personally and professionally.”

— Benedicte M.


“Honestly, this is one of the few leadership courses that made me slow down and really think. The reflections helped me understand why I react the way I do under pressure and how to shift those patterns. I've noticed an immediate positive difference in my interactions at work. Couldn't recommend it more highly.”

— Antonio P.


“Leadership Reflexivity isn't just theory — it's a mindset shift. The instructor breaks down complex ideas in a way that feels empowering and inspiring, and the reflection exercises helped me reconnect with my core values. I feel more grounded, more intentional, and honestly more excited to lead. Five stars all the way!”

— Deana R.


“A beautifully delivered course with valuable insights and actionable techniques. Aang created a very supportive learning environment while covering important topics like emotional resilience, grounding, and self-awareness. I especially enjoyed the balance between theory and guided practices. The lessons felt meaningful, practical, and genuinely helpful for both personal growth and professional wellbeing.”

— Palejazy


“An excellent course that combines neuroscience, mindfulness, and practical regulation techniques in a very accessible way. I found the modules on grounding, breath regulation, and co-regulation especially powerful. Aang explains everything with patience and depth, making the learning experience both calming and empowering. I would recommend this course to professionals, leaders, and anyone interested in improving emotional balance and resilience.”

— Suzi G.


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